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December 26, 2006

Caring for a new pet

Did your child get a pet for Christmas? Here are some tips from experts to help a new pet settle into its new home. Advice comes from: Kim Thornton, author of The ’I Have a Life’ Dog Owner’s Guide: All You Need to Be a Fabulous Puppy Parent; Amy Robinson of Vero Beach, Fla., a dog trainer who specializes in children/dog relationships; and Dr. Melinda Merck, a forensic veterinarian in Roswell, Georgia.

All new pets are stressed. They’re in a strange place with people and often other animals they don’t know. Try to make them feel safe.
Kittens and puppies are babies, and like all babies, they need a lot of sleep. Make sure they get plenty of rest. A half-hour of romping might mean a two-hour nap is needed.
Take all new pets to your vet within a week for a checkup and to start their puppy or kitten shots.
Acclimate new pets slowly. Try keeping them in one room for the first few days, then slowly widen the areas they can explore.
Pet-proof your house. Pick up string, yarn, small toys, rubber bands and anything else an inquisitive pet might be tempted to eat. Make sure the plants in your home aren’t toxic (check online at www.aspca.org/toxicplants).
Supervise children and pets. Young children should never be left alone with pets. Teach children the correct way to hold a pet, to stroke them (most animals prefer under the chin, the chest or shoulders, but not the top of the head) and to feed them. Don’t let children tease, hit or annoy pets, especially when they are eating.
Cox News Service

Get kids moving

The presents have been exchanged and your kids are probably busy moving their hands and fingers over video games, DVDs and toys that keep them from lifting their bottoms from their chairs.
That said, we are offering a suggestion: Healthy Kids’ Catalog. Click on www.healthykidscatalog.com and be introduced to all sorts of move-it toys and games.
Sure, there are jump ropes and basketballs. Also check out the unicycle, $76.99; the Moon Shoes, $38.49; and the Youth Inflatable Punching Bag from Everlast, $29.48.
We particularly like the Entertrainer. The $139.95 price includes a heart-rate monitor that keeps tabs of kids’ heart rates as they use a treadmill, do calisthenics, jump rope or any other exercise. It’s connected to the TV; the harder they work out, the louder the volume. If they slack off, the volume drops.
Choose products by category, or look for special offers and read what the experts have to say. It may be too late to shop for the holidays, but there is always next year.
Leslie Garcia

December 22, 2006

Teen drug abuse

WASHINGTON — Teens increasingly are getting high with legal drugs like painkillers and mood stimulants, and they’re turning to cough syrup as well, says a government survey released this week.
The annual study by the National Institute on Drug Abuse, conducted by the University of Michigan, showed mixed results in the nation’s longtime campaign against teen drug abuse.
It found that while fewer teens overall drank alcohol or used illegal drugs in the last year, a small but growing number were popping prescription painkillers like OxyContin and Vicodin and stimulants like Ritalin.
As many as one in every 14 high school seniors said they used cold medicine “fairly recently” to get high, the study found.
It was the first year that the government tracked the frequency of teens who reported getting high from over-the-counter medicine for coughs and colds.

Associated Press

Holiday fun - The Polar Express

The Polar Express
Catch a free screening of The Polar Express at 6 p.m. It’s part of the free holiday
activities at Christmas in the Square in Frisco Saturday and Sunday from 5 to 9 p.m. Festivities include a light show synchronized to holiday music through Jan. 2. Main Street and Coleman Blvd., Frisco. Free. 469-633-1721.

Holiday fun - snow globes

Visitors can walk through a giant snow globe that features scenes from Happy Feet as part of The Shops at Willow Bend Snow Globes. Pictures that add Happy Feet characters to your image are available, too. Friday and Saturday form 10 a.m. to 9 p.m., Sunday noon to 6 p.m. Shops at Willow Bend, Dallas North Tollway at West Park Boulevard, Plano. Free. 972-202-4900.

Elder abuse

This holiday season, you may be visiting elderly relatives or friends you haven’t seen in a while. If so, it is often a time of laughter and fun. But amid the light conversation, be aware of some dark possibilities. The National Center on Elder Abuse says be alert for signs of elder abuse.
Some of the warning signs of elder abuse are easy to spot, such as bruises, black-and-blue marks and abrasions. Other signs are less apparent. The center says 90 percent of all elder abuse is committed by relatives, so if your friend or loved one lives with a spouse or adult child, be on the lookout for tense relationships and constant arguments.
If you suspect a problem, ask the apparent victim if he or she is being abused. It puts you in an uncomfortable position, but you may be saving your loved one from a painful situation.
The National Center on Elder Abuse offers resources where you can get information and help. Go to www.elderabusecenter.org or call 202-898-2586.

Los Angeles Times-Washington Post News Service

December 21, 2006

Holiday fun

Grapevine’s annual celebration features costumed characters, visits with Santa, carolers, holiday treats and more. Friday from 2 to 5 p.m., Saturday 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. in historic downtown Grapevine. Free. 817-410-3185.

Holiday card winners

We've got the winning entries for this year's DMN and Children's Medical Center holiday card contest. Check out the best cards in today's Family section. Or see our slideshow of winners.

Ex-etiquette

Many of you might remember the poll we took a few weeks ago. The original question came from a second wife who did not live with her husband because he worked in another country. Upon visiting him, she found a picture on the mantel of his ex-wife and kids but no picture of her. She was upset, and when she asked her husband to remove the picture, he refused.
We asked our readers if the husband’s displaying a picture of his former family and no picture of his current wife was a psychological indicator of his preference for the past or a matter of convenience. We suspected women would say psychological indicator and men would say convenience. And the response was as we predicted — to a degree.

A third of the respondents (of these, 88 percent were women) felt it was a psychological indicator. And most men who said it was a psychological indicator responded along with their wives or significant others: “My husband (or wife) and I believe … .”
Now for our suggestion to this newlywed: The picture of your ex with the kids is probably the only picture your husband has of his kids — especially if he lives out of the country and hasn’t seen his children for a while. He would probably welcome a new picture, complete with frame. The traditional first-year wedding gift is paper, so, next time the kids visit, snap some pictures, frame them and present them to your spouse. If you don’t see the kids that often, you might enlist the help of his ex for some up-to-date photos. Or have some professional pictures taken as a gift for the next holiday. Give your husband two pictures: one of his kids and one of you. If, after you have presented him with these gifts, he still refuses to take down the old picture, then you do have a problem.
On a completely different note, we have one more suggestion for you: Live with your husband.

December 20, 2006

Fun stuff for the holiday table

We've had a debate going all afternoon. If you create tiny Christmas "trees" out of ice cream cones and green icing, should they be eaten? Or are they merely for looks? Either way, they make fun placeholders for the holiday meal. Find out what your kids think. Directions here. You'll also find directions for decorated letters made from pound cake. Make one for each child's plate.

Safer seafood

Confused by all the studies about whether fish is good for you or bad for you? Even more confused on which type of fish are safe for your kids to eat?
Several environmental groups now produce fish guides with detailed information on contaminants in types of seafood, and which ones are ocean-friendly or not.
The Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) publishes a fish guide, and the groups SeaWeb and Environmental Defense just made it easier by publishing a guide on safe fish consumption for kids at www.kidsafeseafood.org.
Beth Trask, program manager at SeaWeb, says the guide uses federal recommendations for fish consumption that are adjusted to children’s average body weight.
Minneapolis Star Tribune

Baby X-ray

The Los Angeles Times reports that a grandmother put a month-old baby in a plastic bin intended for carry-on items and sent the infant through a security X-ray machine at Los Angeles International Airport on Saturday. A screener watching the machine’s monitor immediately noticed the outline of a baby and pulled the bin backward on the conveyor belt. The infant was taken to the hospital, where doctors determined that he did not receive a dangerous dose of radiation.

Aviation officials, who declined to release the 56-year-old woman’s name, said she spoke Spanish and apparently did not understand English. She initially did not want the baby transported to a hospital, but security officials called paramedics and insisted that the child be examined by a doctor.
The grandmother and the child were subsequently allowed to board an Alaska Airlines flight to Mexico City.
The incident drew attention to whether aviation officials are staffing often-busy security checkpoints adequately enough to prevent such an accident. And it raised questions about the danger of X-rays used to pick out suspicious metal shapes in passenger bags, given the medical community’s warnings that even low amounts of radiation that can build up over a lifetime.
“Rather than focus on the radiation dose, which is a small amount, we need to focus on why this happened, so it doesn’t happen again,” said Dr. James Borgstede, a clinical professor of radiology at the University of Colorado and president of the American College of Radiology. “Human beings weren’t meant to go through those things.”
In the several seconds the baby spent in the machine, the doctor added, he was exposed to as much radiation as he would naturally get from cosmic rays -- or high energy from outer space -- in a day.
Security experts said the incident underscored a more widespread concern about the screening process at LAX and other airports.
“The screeners are still reporting that they’re being pushed,” said Brian Sullivan, a retired Federal Aviation Administration security agent. “If a baby can get through, what the hell else can get through?”
Nico Melendez, a spokesman for the Transportation Security Administration, which manages LAX screeners, said the agency does not have enough workers to constantly stand at tables in front of the screeners to coach passengers on what should or should not be placed through X-ray machines.
But in some cases, airlines contract with private companies to staff the tables and assist travelers. The TSA will also occasionally put employees at the tables if extra workers are available.
TSA screeners often ask passengers to remove their coats, shoes, laptops and other items and put them into the bins, Melendez said. But they cannot observe everything people put there, because they must monitor screening equipment, he said.
Still, he said the TSA works hard to educate passengers about what carry-on objects require screening and that travelers must take responsibility for knowing these rules.
“There’s an obligation on the traveler to use some common sense,” said Larry Fetters, the TSA’s federal security director at LAX. “If they don’t understand, they should ask somebody. If they ask us, we are generally able to find someone who speaks that language and assist them.”
On its Web site, the TSA posts extensive tips for travelers, including a section titled “Traveling With Children.” Listed among the items is a sentence that reads: “Never leave babies in an infant carrier while it goes through the X-ray machine.”
There are also signs posted in English and Spanish at ticket counters and near security checkpoints warning passengers that they must put cell phones, pagers, car keys and other metal objects into bins that go through X-ray machines.
Airport and TSA officials said because the incident is so rare, and because the health risk is so low, they did not plan to issue specific warnings to passengers to not put children through X-ray machines.
“This was an innocent mistake by an obviously inexperienced traveler,” said Paul Haney, deputy executive director of airports and security for the city’s airport agency. “This is only the second time in nearly 20 years that anyone can recall a traveler mistakenly putting an infant through an airport X-ray machine. Since then LAX has served more than 1 billion travelers without an incident of this type.”
In 1988, an infant in a car seat went through an X-ray machine at LAX Terminal 4.

December 19, 2006

Santa Tracker

Wondering if Santa has left the North Pole and will make it to your chimney in time for Christmas? Starting today you can track Santa's progress on the DFW International Airport's SantaTracker Web site. The site includes kid-friendly travel tips, interactive games and Santa's landing at DFW's airfield.

December 18, 2006

Holiday tip for parents

Parents! Are you visiting adult children this holiday season? Here are some tips to help make the visit go smoothly:

Don’t snoop! It’s their home, not yours.
Compliment them. It might not seem like it, but your kids are trying hard and really do care what you think.
Offer to help, but don’t invade the kitchen unless you’re asked.
If you must bring your favorite holiday dish, ask first, and be sure to remind your son and daughter to alert the other side so they can opt to bring something as well.
Don’t criticize anyone or anything. Sarcasm and snap judgments can turn a party toxic.
Your impulse as a parent might be to start doing things for your kids, but ask first. If you’re staying over, don’t wake them up by doing their laundry or vacuuming their carpet. Remember, it’s their place.
Don’t forget that you’re the guests! Relax and enjoy!

Detroit Free Press

December 15, 2006

Santa and a sandwich

Ho, ho, hold the mayo. Blue Star Deli in Farmers Branch will be offering free photos with Santa tomorrow from 8 to 10:30 a.m. The deli is located at 14724 Webb Chapel Road just south of Belt Line.

December 14, 2006

Smaller schools

Reporter Nancy Churnin's story on families moving to rural towns for smaller schools has been generating much feedback from our readers. Here are some comments from Nancy on how she came up with the story:

Ever wonder if your child would be better off at a smaller school? As my son, Sam, gets ready to go to Plano West next fall, I've been asking myself that A LOT. We moved to Plano for the schools, but I never fully considered that the trade-off for the high standards can be a lot of rejection. I asked our wonderful DMN Teen Advisory Board their thoughts and I was told about a family that had moved from Coppell to Argyle because they thought their kids would be more successful in a smaller school. That is the genesis of the small schools story that ran on the cover of the Family section today. As a parent, it's really helped me to read all the comments readers have been posting about the choices they made. Although I have to admit I still haven't made up my own mind what will be best for Sam and his younger brothers!
Read Nancy Churnin's story and tell us what you think. Are smaller schools better?

Holiday safety tips

As you celebrate the holidays with decorations, keep children and pets in mind, and take general safety precautions. Here are a few safety tips from the National Safety Council:
Avoid placing breakable tree ornaments or ones with small, detachable parts on lower branches where small children or pets can reach them.
Don’t hang popcorn chains and candy canes on the tree when small children are present. They may think that other tree ornaments also are edible.
Use only indoor lights indoors (and outdoor lights only outdoors). Check lights for broken or cracked sockets, frayed or bare wires, or loose connections. Replace or repair any damaged light sets.
Use no more than three light sets on each extension cord. Extension cords should be placed against the wall to avoid tripping hazards. Don’t run cords under rugs.
Turn off all lights on trees and decorations when you go to bed or leave the house.
The Wichita Eagle

December 13, 2006

Body Worlds: Appropriate for children?

There is something gruesome yet interesting about seeing hearts, lungs and other body parts.

Last week, Mary Dunklin, our Healthy Living editor, received a book about the exhibit "Body Worlds," which is on display at the Museum of Nature & Science in Dallas.

The book included photo after photo of bodies and body parts, including diseased lungs, hearts, etc. One photo of the body's organs highlighted black lungs. We joked about how that would be an effective anti-smoking ad.

But there were also photos of a deformed baby and one of a man (muscle and bone) holding his own skin. As we talked about the photos, other co-workers chimed in and we wondered whether this was appropriate for children. According to the museum's Web site, organizers recommends that "a parent or adult accompany children under the age of 13, but there is no age requirement."

Do you plan to take your kids the exhibit? Have you already been with your kids? Leave a comment below, and be sure to include your children's ages.

December 12, 2006

Surviving the airport

You see these families at every airport: Kids whining, babies bawling, and parents with that tight-lipped look that says, "We should have stayed home this Christmas." Columnist Eileen Ogintz has ideas for making sure you're not one of those families.

Looking for a good kids' book series?

A great kids' book series can be a wonderful thing for the holidays -- or even just to keep the kids amused on their way to the festivities. Assuming everyone knows Harry Potter, Charlie Bone, Eragon, The Lightning Thief and The Spiderwick Chronicles (all lots of fun), how about Children of the Lamp? The first book showed twins John and Philippa discovering they're descended from the djinn (genies) on their mother's side. And yes, finally we have fantasy heroes WITH siblings (who spar but love each other) AND parents! It's called The Akhenaten Adventure (Orchard Books, $16.95). The second one, The Blue Djinn of Babylon (Orchard Books, $16.99), came out this year and I'm really enjoying learning about a new game called Djinnverso with bizarre dice called astaragali (can a real life game be far behind?). The third one is due out in January so it could be fun to get the first two and reserve the third for a present to come in January.

December 08, 2006

Let's Face It

I am getting ready for my all-too-often jaunt to Super Target. This one, though, is kind of an act of courage for me. That's because, in an effort to keep pre-skin cancerous spots from becoming the real thing, I'm undergoing a dermatological treatment.

Thus, for a few more weeks, my face looks like melted candy canes have been poured onto it. That, or I am a sheep herder in the arid desert, where neither sunscreen nor moisturizer are available.

I am willing to do this because the idea of skin cancer scares the daylights out of me. I am trying to be upbeat, to find humor in it, to not freak anyone out with my looks.

Still, I am sorely tempted to stay home. Yet I am mustering my resolve and heading out for several reasons -- among them that I'm accomplishing virtually nothing at home. But also these: To prove to myself I am not merely my face. To show my son (who, God love him, still manages to carry on conversations with little reference to Freddy Krueger) that sometimes we just have to plunge right into life. To practice talking to strangers, to whom I feel compelled to explain this unsightliness.

So here I go. If you see me, smile and wave. If you want to say hello, feel free to focus your eyes at a spot somewhere over my shoulder; I'll understand. And let's hope that in a few weeks or so, people will peg me for someone years younger. Or at least (or most) someone who took some not-so-pretty steps to stay healthy.

Teen birth rate drops

Out-of-wedlock births aren’t just for teen mothers anymore.
While the unmarried birthrate climbed to an all-time high in the United States, accounting for nearly four in 10 babies born last year, the teen birth rate dropped last year to the lowest level on record.
Instead, births among unwed mothers rose most dramatically among women in their 20s.
The overall rise reflects the burgeoning number of people who are putting off marriage or living together without getting married. The increase in births to unwed mothers was seen in all racial groups, but rose most sharply among Hispanics. It was up among all age groups except youngsters ages 10 to 17.
“A lot of people think of teenagers and unmarried mothers synonymously, but they are not driving this,” says Stephanie Ventura of the National Center for Health Statistics, a co-author of the report.
The government also reported that the rate of births by Caesarean delivery continued to climb in 2005 to a record high, despite efforts by public health authorities to bring down the number. Many experts believe a large number of C-sections are medically unnecessary and done only for the convenience of the mother or her doctor.
The Associated Press

December 07, 2006

What's a Wii?

Lisa, responding to your comment, you don't know how lucky you are that your 7-year-old doesn't know what a Wii is yet. It's the latest Nintendo gaming system -- an update of the GameCube. Some aspects are pretty cool -- you swing the controller around to bat or move as opposed to just pressing buttons. With any luck, he won't discover it until after the holiday is over and the price goes down!

Buy a book

Wondering what to get your nieces and nephews for the holidays this year?
Pop-ups and sticker books are popular with older kids, but babies and toddlers will do better with board or cloth books that they can really touch — or chew. Look for simple, rhythmic language.
—Preschoolers also like rhythm and also repetition.
—Books that use many of the same words that grade schoolers use in everyday life can help give young readers the confidence to try a new, more challenging word, says May. She also encourages books with international or ethnic themes.
—For older children, you’ll have to know a little bit more about their interests. For instance, consider a science fiction book for a “Star Wars” buff or a fashion book for a “Project Runway” fan.
It’s also a good idea to give older children chapter books that they can read bits of each day and then come back to, employing recall and comprehension.
And if it seems daunting to pick a book for someone else, ask a librarian for advice. A librarian usually has a handle on what’s available and what’s popular.
Associated Press

Should daughter make amends?

Question: My father divorced and remarried, and, as a result, my husband and I didn’t have a good relationship with him. We are devout Catholics, and we don’t agree with divorce and remarriage. The family contacted me one day prior to hospice coming in, and then he passed away the next day. It left me no time to make arrangements and feeling guilty even though my father and I did not speak. I just found out from the newspaper that the funeral is tomorrow. Being that my husband just had surgery, I cannot attend his funeral. Should I feel guilty?

Answer: First, our sympathies. Second, we can’t tell you if you should feel guilty or not — but we can offer this little tidbit to think about. The one you chose not to get along with has passed. Your other family members remain. The choices you make now will impact the relationship you have with them — not with your dad. So, the statement you make by not attending your father’s funeral is not to the man with whom you had issues, but to the family that remains. All guilt aside, you have to ask yourself if that is the statement you want to make. How will your decision not to attend the funeral affect your relationships with other family members?
There are 10 rules of Good Ex-Etiquette. There isn’t room to list them all here, but you can find them in our book Ex-Etiquette for Parents and on the Bonus Families Web site. We can tell you that Ex-Etiquette Rule No. 6 is “Don’t Hold Grudges.” Continuing to be angry with your father even in his death is your choice. If you continue acting in this manner, however, it’s a sure bet that this will not be the last time you will be faced with feeling guilty. With this in mind, if your husband cannot be left alone after surgery and the funeral is not too far away, we suggest you hire a nurse for a few hours and attend the funeral. It’s the first step to healing wounded relationships in your family.
You implied that the reason for being distant from your father was based on your religious beliefs about divorce and remarriage. We wouldn’t be as presumptuous as to second-guess anyone’s religious beliefs, but if your church’s beliefs are really why you were estranged from your dad the last two years of his life and are at the root of your not attending his funeral, we suggest you look to your priest for direction. Because, you see, we don’t believe the real issue here is nonacceptance of divorce and remarriage. The real issue at this point is forgiveness, on all sorts of levels, and that’s where your priest can help you.
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Ex-Etiquette is written by Jann Blackstone-Ford, M.A., and her husband’s ex-wife, Sharyl Jupe. They are the authors of Ex-Etiquette for Parents: Good Behavior After a Divorce or Separation.

Working with schools

A new program helps parents work better with schools. Share your experience with your child's school -- leave a comment!

December 06, 2006

Can We Escape the Wii?

I don't know about presents for girls -- not having any girls -- but I'm wondering if there's any escape from getting the Wii for the boys. Every time they come out with a new system near the holidays, there's this enormous pressure to find a way to get the ungettable at a price that's unbelievable. Now you can say it's ONLY! $250, but then they want controllers and games and memory cards and won't they be disappointed if that's ALL they get? What kills me, too, is you know it's going to come down in price a few months into 2007. Does anyone have the strength to just say no? I'm not sure I do. Two of my boys want it as a joint gift. The teen doesn't care a thing about video games so at least I'm off the hook there. But he does want a video iPod. And there's that magic number -- $250 again...

Suicide prevention

"The mtvU College Mental Health Study: Stress, Depression, Stigma & Students,” conducted in October, found that one in five college seniors say they have thought about committing suicide, nearly three times the number of freshmen.
Almost half of respondents say they would encourage a troubled friend to seek counseling, but only 22 percent say they would go for treatment themselves if they were in the same position.
The Web site for MTV’s new public service campaign, www.halfofus.com, makes it easy for students to understand their emotional issues and to get help if needed, with easy-to-navigate links to college campus mental-health facilities.
In conjunction with the Jed Foundation (www.jedfoundation.org), the site connects to UlifeLine.org’s anonymous online screener, developed by Duke University Medical School and consisting of a series of questions that tailors feedback based on the user’s school and available services.
The National Suicide Prevention Hotline is available at (800) 273-8255 (TALK) or at www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org.
Los Angeles Daily News

Hot Gifts for 9-Year-Old Girls

I was driving four 9-year-old girls home from ballet class last night (imagine four girls screaming along with "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" -- who can concentrate on driving?!) and used that moment to ask them what the hot gifts are this year for girls. "I-Dog and I-Cat!" they screamed. "Chatnow!" I had no idea what these are until I looked them up. Chatnow is basically a way to text and talk to your friends from two miles away. Even my daughter knew what this was. First pierced ears, now cell phones. The girls also had this bit of wisdom: "Never let your dad buy you clothes." Remember the Hannah Montana episode involving the sweaters? What other gift ideas do you have for girls this age?

December 05, 2006

Artful stories

The Dallas Museum of Art is offering families both real and virtual experiences this holiday season. In the months of December and January, families can participate in special kid activities -- learning more about Vincent van Gogh or sketching in the galleries. Log on to the museum's Web site for a schedule of activities.

For families who can't make it to the museum, you can log on to arturosartstories.org and learn about individual works of art.

A Veggie Christmas

A Very Veggie Christmas Live! starts its Dallas tour today at Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship. The larger-than-life Bob the Tomato and Larry the Cucumber from the popular DVD series will continue their funny take on Biblical lessons through Dec. 9 at other area churches.

DETAILS: 2 and 7 p.m. at Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship 1808 W. Camp Wisdom Road. 214-672-9100. Tickets may be purchased by calling 1-800-731-4500; visiting the radio station, 411 Ryan Plaza Drive in Arlington, or select LifeWay Christian Stores; or online at www.kcbi.org. .$15-$22 adults, $10-$18 kids. Gold ticket premium seating is $25-$26.

December 04, 2006

In Luau of Tearing Your Hair Out

You may not have heard of Hawaii Time, but if you're the parent of a college student, you just might experience it over the holidays. Coined by Southern Methodist University parent liason Deanie Kepler, it refers to the five hours college students' schedules tend to be behind their parents'.

"Parents get up at their usual time long before their children wake up, which is usually around noon," she says. "Your dinner may be their lunch, and you may have to alter your schedule to see more of them."

How to adjust? With an open mind, open arms and an open pantry.

+Here are some more of her tips for college parents:

Watch for signs of depression, alcohol or drug use, and eating disorders.
Set boundaries and curfews, but remember they haven't had such annoyances i awhile. Be prepared to adjust.
Fix their favorite meal.
Don't be hurt if want to spend time with high-school buddies.

Chess Fans

Chess fans, come see how it's done by one of the best teams in the nation -- right here in Dallas! The University of Texas at Dallas Grandmaster Invitational starts Tuesday, December 5th and runs through December 13th in the community room of the First Bank of Canyon Creek, 429 Belle Grove Dr in Richardson. The tournament will include 4 grandmasters, including former UTD chess team captain Yuri Shulman who has a chess rating of 2614. It begins with an opening ceremony at 5 PM on Tuesday with the first round at 5:30 PM. The event is free and open to the public. For a list of games times visit www.utdallas.edu. To watch the games online, visit www.chessclub.com. For more information contact Luis Salinas at 972-883-2898.

December 01, 2006

Another Look at Happy Feet

Lisa, it's amazing how differently kids can see the same movie. When I took my kids to Happy Feet, they were into the humor (particularly the Robin Williams' penguins) and the theme about the misfit who ends up being a hero. The singing/mating part bored them -- I think they zoned out during those sequences and certainly didn't have any questions about it afterwards. The chase scene was a little scary (although no one dies and there's no blood and it's not unlike chase scenes you see in a lot of cartoons). My 10-year-old was really into the message about how humans should stop overfishing and depriving penguins of food. Maybe it would be helpful to have a more detailed parent guide with a chunky text breakdown of what messages are sent and what different ages might make of those messages. Not all PGs are alike -- that's for sure.

Is Happy Feet Too Sexy for your Kids?

I took my 7-year-old son and 9-year-old daughter to see Happy Feet and sat there the entire time wondering, "Why is this kid movie rated PG?" Then it hit me: it's all about sex and mating. Would my kids have any tough questions for me on the theme? Did they realize it was about sex and mating? It's no more provocative than the Cheetah Girls, right? I didn't get any questions from them. But my son was scared enough to pull his jacket hood over his face during the scary seal chase. Do you think this movie needs a parental guidance rating?

A dishwasher that's done in 30 minutes

A half-hour is all it takes the Ariston 670 rapid wash dishwasher to wash and dry. Check out this and other timesaving devices from our Home section.