Holiday tip for parents
Parents! Are you visiting adult children this holiday season? Here are some tips to help make the visit go smoothly:
Don’t snoop! It’s their home, not yours.
Compliment them. It might not seem like it, but your kids are trying hard and really do care what you think.
Offer to help, but don’t invade the kitchen unless you’re asked.
If you must bring your favorite holiday dish, ask first, and be sure to remind your son and daughter to alert the other side so they can opt to bring something as well.
Don’t criticize anyone or anything. Sarcasm and snap judgments can turn a party toxic.
Your impulse as a parent might be to start doing things for your kids, but ask first. If you’re staying over, don’t wake them up by doing their laundry or vacuuming their carpet. Remember, it’s their place.
Don’t forget that you’re the guests! Relax and enjoy!
Detroit Free Press